If there’s a woman you currently have your eye on, you’ve probably already imagined several fond scenarios with her. What would it be like to go on a date with this woman? What would it be like to have her as your girlfriend? (Image Credit: Andrea Piacquadio/Pexels)
Although it’s completely understandable to be thinking these thoughts, they aren’t really going to get you anywhere. Sure, flowers and gifts are a good idea, but it’s been proven time and time again that these aren’t what get you the girl, either.
If you’re serious about a woman, you have to start changing her perspective of you. Work on making yourself charming and charismatic in her eyes, so she’ll finally consider being yours.
Triggering Attraction in a Woman
The first and most important step to winning a woman’s attraction is to create interest in her mind. This allows you to control every situation with a girl and have a real chance of becoming her beau.
Once you learn and master this particular skill, you’ll be sure and confident in your interactions with women. The women you talk to will take notice of this, as well, and be impressed by your confidence.
You’ll be able to go out to a club or bar, meet a girl, and end the night exchanging numbers. Your friends are going to be surprised by this sudden shift in your fortunes, too, and will want to be let in on your secret.
The Principles Behind Female Attraction
It’s true that most men don’t get what the concept behind female attraction really is. The most obvious testament to this is the large number of men that find dating extremely complicated. (Image Credit: Alvin Mahmudov/Unsplash)
Men just don’t get it sometimes. Some think that women operate similarly to men and just look at what’s on display. Others believe all you have to do is work on your personality, learn how to become a charming man, and the tide might just turn for you yet.
Well, that may be true to some degree, but it certainly won’t guarantee an attraction where women are concerned. Don’t try to go about female attraction logically and intuitively because it is usually none of those things.
1. No Logic Behind Attraction
In all the years you’ve been trying to charm a woman, do you keep running into the same roadblocks? It seems as though the more you worked with what was logical, the more things turned out the way you didn’t want them to.
As mentioned, female attraction usually goes beyond the bounds of logic. You should never assume that attraction works for women the way it does for men. Just because men are more focused on looks and personality doesn’t mean women are, too.
If it worked out this way, most men wouldn’t have a problem dating the women of their dreams. They’d just have to wear nice clothes, treat a girl right, and be an all-around stand-up guy, and the girl would be theirs.
However, this combination doesn’t guarantee that a girl will be yours, which is why you’re always going to think there’s something missing. It could be that you aren’t charming and witty enough, or some part of you just isn’t enough for the woman.
Well, don’t let these thoughts stop you. When you keep trying to figure women out despite the challenges, you’ll start to learn something profound about them, which leads us to the next principle of attraction.
2. Women Go for Personality More Than Looks
While looking good does help your chances with women, it still doesn’t guarantee long-term success. Men check out how perfect a woman’s skin and body is, but women look at a man’s ability to make her laugh, treat her right, and respect her. Take note that women don’t do this on purpose; it’s just how they’re wired. (Image Credit: Priscilla Du Preez/Unsplash)
Aside from certain physical qualities women look for in a man, they are also attracted to great personality traits. Sure, a good-looking guy has the power to attract them initially, but when it comes to long-term attraction, personality will always win out.
Men go for the qualities they can see and observe with their own two eyes. Women, on the other hand, are more attracted to things that aren’t tangible but can be felt deep within.
3. Attraction Isn’t a Choice
Women sometimes set standards in their head about the kind of man they’re attracted to or want to date. However, attraction isn’t a choice, which is why even if you don’t fit the description of an “ideal” man for a particular woman, there’s still a chance she could become attracted to you.
Attraction for women is different than what it is for men. While men mostly go for the physical, women are attracted to personality. Women don’t use their logical minds when deciding who to be attracted to, either. They use their emotions to make that decision.